Milka,
I also think that is too dangerous to put Michelle on adult bed to sleep (no matter alone or besides your maid). Baby always wakes up in the midnight or nap, she will try to climb out of the bed !!! And as kyy said once baby uses to sleep together with adult, she will never want to sleep alone when grows up. After my maid left, I moved Wing Fung's baby bed to my room. He always wakes up in the midnight and asks for hugging. Sometimes even need to sleep with us, but I find that the situation is now becoming more serious. Even daytime nap, he wants to sleep on my bed more than his. I am now trying to adjust his bad habit, don't fall into the same trap as me. ~~~~~You want your maid to sleep less now OR Michelle cannot sleep in the future after she left....