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男爵府

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發表於 08-5-18 09:34 |只看該作者
個賓賓收埋3咸碟, 其中一張係女同性戀咸碟, 我應該做? 我剛剛同佢 confirmed re-new the contact. 佢舊 contract 14/9/2008 到期. New contract will start from 16/9/08. 佢今日去菲領事館renew her passport because her passport will be expired on Mar 09. 佢做野60 – 70分,但好錫我女. 佢已,有3個仔女

[ 本文章最後由 TB 於 08-5-18 10:03 編輯 ]


男爵府

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發表於 08-5-18 15:16 |只看該作者
有冇人可以比意見?


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發表於 08-5-18 15:40 |只看該作者
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翡翠宮

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發表於 08-5-18 15:46 |只看該作者
如果佢嘅性取向唔影响performance咪由佢囉....


複式洋房

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發表於 08-5-19 10:41 |只看該作者
if she is not watching those DVDs together with your kids, personally i think it is acceptable, no need to worry too much.

but if she watched together with your kids, you better have further actions!

my friends got 2 girls, 4 and 2. her helper hasn't got tv in her room then she watched in the living room in daytime together with the kids, finally she was fired.

原文章由 TB 於 08-5-18 15:16 發表
有冇人可以比意見?


伯爵府

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發表於 08-5-19 11:04 |只看該作者
如佢沒有在港的boyfriend + 無跡象有不良副業的大前題下, 影響唔到performance我覺得無問題.


大宅

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發表於 08-5-19 11:10 |只看該作者
好抱歉, 我接受唔到. 無論有無影響日常工作表現, 我都覺得污穢, esp 係張同性戀咸碟, 啦咁我自然估佢放假做d mud.


伯爵府

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發表於 08-5-19 12:14 |只看該作者
Where can she watch them? If in your house, warning letter!
Also, you must tell her you can't accept those DVDs in your house. After all, she is an employee. Like my hubby's boss, he will send memo to all staff, no curry and durian in the office.


男爵府

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發表於 08-5-19 12:50 |只看該作者
wanwyy, I'm not sure if she watch at my home or not. She doesn't know I check her stuff. How can I talk to her? When I saw that yesterday, I was shock and very unhappy even this is her own stuff.
BTW, the 3 disc is : man & woman; 一張係女同性戀咸碟, and 一張係man同性戀咸碟
原文章由 wanwyy 於 08-5-19 10:41 發表
if she is not watching those DVDs together with your kids, personally i think it is acceptable, no need to worry too much.

but if she watched together with your kids, you better have further actions! ...

[ 本文章最後由 TB 於 08-5-19 12:53 編輯 ]


水晶宮

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發表於 08-5-19 16:37 |只看該作者
我都接受唔到......


複式洋房

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發表於 08-5-20 09:36 |只看該作者
hello TB,

i understood your feeling coz my daughter is 4. do you have i-cam at home? i don't know how to talk to her, you can't let her know you checked her stuff when she wasn't home. may be you can ask your kids what the maide did in daytime.

原文章由 TB 於 08-5-19 12:50 發表
wanwyy, I'm not sure if she watch at my home or not. She doesn't know I check her stuff. How can I talk to her? When I saw that yesterday, I was shock and very unhappy even this is her own stuff.
BTW ...


男爵府

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發表於 08-5-20 09:53 |只看該作者
wanwyy, my baby is just 20 mths and I didn't install i-cam at home. But anyway, we will not renew her contract and will terminate her once we can find another maid. Her old contrace will be end on 14/9/08. But we confirmed to renew her contract at the beginning of this mth but we still not process any document. Is it ok if we don't renew her contract now?

Her relationship between her husband is not very good because her husband had a girl last year. The main point I worry about is the 同性戀咸碟.

[ 本文章最後由 TB 於 08-5-20 09:56 編輯 ]


別墅

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發表於 08-5-20 10:03 |只看該作者
我有相同的經驗, 佢仲要唔係收得好埋, 我直接同佢講, 太太唔容許家里有這些東西. 就以後都無再見到, 但我不再和她續約, 因我知她出面識左好多男人. 本人保守, 接受不了.


別墅

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發表於 08-5-20 10:21 |只看該作者
性不是污穢, 同性戀又不是罪惡, 你chao距D野, 唔arm o個個系你wor!


男爵府

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發表於 08-5-20 10:51 |只看該作者
I agree and understand. But do you have any baby or kid? If you have, you will understand what all the mother's concern.
原文章由 小伊 於 08-5-20 10:21 發表
性不是污穢, 同性戀又不是罪惡, 你chao距D野, 唔arm o個個系你wor!


男爵府

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發表於 08-5-20 10:52 |只看該作者
I agree and understand. But do you have any baby or kid? If you have, you will understand what all the mother's concern.
原文章由 小伊 於 08-5-20 10:21 發表
性不是污穢, 同性戀又不是罪惡, 你chao距D野, 唔arm o個個系你wor!


別墅

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發表於 08-5-20 11:27 |只看該作者
我都有兩個B架, 屋企個印印又系tom boy, 無mud問題丫! 時代唔同了, 世界已經變得更包容, 同性戀不是病態, 左手右手的分別而矣.


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發表於 08-5-20 11:46 |只看該作者
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男爵府

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發表於 08-5-20 12:23 |只看該作者
agree, this is what my friend said.

原文章由 sweetcouple 於 08-5-20 11:46 發表
咁, 你包容到, 唔代表第二d人都要包容到囉......
只可講句: 互相尊重啦!
作為僱主, 如果僱員有任何令我包容唔到的私人問題, 包括佢私生活, 我覺得我有權解決炒唔炒佢!
同埋, 工人只係有權住我屋企, 唔代表佢放 ...


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發表於 08-5-20 12:59 |只看該作者
在職場都唔會上咸網啦, 何況屋企唔係佢既, 又有細路仔, 萬一學壞就 "恨錯難返" 了, 唔可以比呢 d 問題存在.

講真, 放假時, 個工人響出面, 做乜真係管唔到, 可能比睇咸vcd更遭, 但響屋企, no way 啦. 諗深一層, 佢幾時會睇, 睇完會唔會有需要 or 做出一d好"燴所"行為就唔好喇.

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