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why need to have two maids? can already imagine how stressful it could be!!!
I wish you good luck, hope you can keep all their work tasks very fair!!

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係囉....一個都想死....兩個真係唔敢想像!

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at one stage (for two years), I had 3 filipina maids, and they are all related, one about 23, the other is 21 (her younger sister) and the 3rd is 25 (the aunt of the 1st one).

you know, there are smart people and those not so smart. my smarter maid(s) would do the cooking and would like to try new dishes. for the not-so-smart one, I tasked her to wash the car, clean the floor, etc.

as they are related, they would not complain against one another.

now i have 2 maids (I keep the 2nd and the 3rd ones becos the 1st one is seriously indebted and always wears long face)

注意:
if they break something, they may not tell you and if you find it out, 她們或許會你眼望我眼, no one would apologize. that piss me off.

i think you need to brief them that the two of them would both need to do the works. you know if one of them take the holiday, the other cannot say 'I don't know how to cook' / 'it's not my duty'

good luck!

原帖由 babie2 於 09-12-28 05:12 PM 發表
can anyone share their strategy with 2 maids? We are trying to hire a 2nd one in the next few months.

1 Indo + 1 Filipino is better??
1 for cooking + house chaos, and 1 for children?

Or split the c ...

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原帖由 mrshoho 於 09-12-28 11:43 PM 發表
why need to have two maids? can already imagine how stressful it could be!!!
I wish you good luck, hope you can keep all their work tasks very fair!!

在這 world 怎會有公平?
though you can try to treat them fairly

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how many children have you got? I have 2 young ones so I have 2 maids. One reason is because both children are very demanding and the other reason is I had experience of a maid who ran away before, with 2 young children it's very risky for me to rely on just one maid....

Maid 1 task:
take care of baby (now 8 months).
cook for baby and play with baby.
look after the baby at night.

Maid 2 task:
take my daughter to school and pick her up at 12.
cooking for the whole family including the other maid.
cleaning and housework.

They take turns to take Saturday and Sunday off so I always have 1 maid to help me.

I don't let my daughter watch TV so both maids have to take turns to play with my daughter to keep her busy.

Maid 1 sleeps with my son and maid 2 has her own room.

This arrangement worked very well for a while but until recently I found it to be unfair to maid 2 because my son now can sleep for 8 hours at night and maid 1 can get more sleep than before. However, maid 1 is still used to not doing any housework....

[ 本帖最後由 cyl299 於 09-12-29 09:47 編輯 ]

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原帖由 babie2 於 09-12-29 09:48 發表
cyl299 - are both you maids Filipino?

Babie2

both are yan. I don't like Filipino because they have to take Sundays off and are more cunning!

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forgot to say, my son will be going to playgroup soon and by that time maid 1 will be a lot busier....

babie2: how old are your children?

I'm also planning to have a 3rd child. =p

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Hi! prettywife,

咁食飯--係咪一次煑晒全家人+3 maids,抑或比$佢地買另外的餸分開煮???

原帖由 prettywife 於 09-12-29 00:15 發表
at one stage (for two years), I had 3 filipina maids, and they are all related, one about 23, the other is 21 (her younger sister) and the 3rd is 25 (the aunt of the 1st one).

you know, there are sma ...

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原帖由 babie2 於 09-12-29 11:57 發表
cyl299,

By Aug 2010, then my children will be:
1. almost 6 years old
2. 4 years old
3. new born....

:) Are you planning your 3rd now?

Babie2

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My children are 2 yrs 10 months and 8 months old. Both my husband and I want another child but neither of our parents agree since we have 1 girl and 1 boy already. It's a tough decision for us but we'll probably try for another one in 1 year's time.

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哇babie2 & cyl299,你地真厲害呀,迎接第三個小朋友!勁!
我想問點可以叫maid 同BB玩呀? 佢地會唔會成日捉咗BB去瞓覺無同佢玩呢?

其實你地有幾個小朋友會不會考慮做full time mum?

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no wonder you need two maids... having three kids!!勁勁勁勁勁

Good luck with everything, if I ever need to hire one more maid, I will have to come back to this page for advice!!!

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