same as my maid bor.... my 3-year fell down from the playpen and hit his head on the floor last week (luckily he is ok)... when I spoke to her (very gentle as I found no use to scold at her anymore... waste my energy)... she said 'yes yes yes'..and immediately, she turned to my son and said the same thing..... 吹漲! I immediately spoke her seriously "I AM TALKING TO YOU!!!"