my father past about 2yrs ago, the night i paid deposit for the dinner for father's birthday dinner also celebrate chinese new year's coming.... everything is only an excuse, just giving a chance to let him see relatives.
what a sudden, after deposit, i back to his home, (i had keys), i found he's dead, although i got first aid cert, cannot help, so hurt, the more i learnt, the more i knew that he's dead.
9 mths later, the best relation elder sister got cancer, she left me too.
up to last year year end, my eldest brother sue us about we are going to not pay him father's money... and said i am no more relative with him.
omg, sue me? he owe me 3x thousands for more than 10yrs, i havn't ask, now, i have no money to lend to u, result with no more relative?
and he said, father's money left (very little), not to give to the got sickness sister. omg, how come he can treat sisters like that? and even said my dead sister's house perhaps was paid by father....
father's left, leading to i have no more brother, sister, father, just leave me with a sickness sister, who need my care, even her daughter not concern, only concern about my father's money.
i told her, if u promise me to take your mom with care, no matter going to be happen, i will give u all she has with my account.
result was "no answer", although she answer me, of course, she is my mom i will take care... but when government said .... then no react...
what the hell's going on? everybody like that, i know money is really important, but, can exchange with anything like love of family members?