個賓賓收埋3張咸碟, 其中一張係女同性戀咸碟, 我應該做? 我剛剛同佢 confirmed re-new the contact. 佢舊 contract 14/9/2008 到期. New contract will start from 16/9/08. 佢今日去菲領事館renew her passport because her passport will be expired on Mar 09. 佢做野60 – 70分,但好錫我女. 佢已,有3個仔女
if she is not watching those DVDs together with your kids, personally i think it is acceptable, no need to worry too much.
but if she watched together with your kids, you better have further actions!
my friends got 2 girls, 4 and 2. her helper hasn't got tv in her room then she watched in the living room in daytime together with the kids, finally she was fired.
Where can she watch them? If in your house, warning letter!
Also, you must tell her you can't accept those DVDs in your house. After all, she is an employee. Like my hubby's boss, he will send memo to all staff, no curry and durian in the office.
wanwyy, I'm not sure if she watch at my home or not. She doesn't know I check her stuff. How can I talk to her? When I saw that yesterday, I was shock and very unhappy even this is her own stuff.
BTW, the 3 disc is : man & woman; 一張係女同性戀咸碟, and 一張係man同性戀咸碟
原文章由 wanwyy 於 08-5-19 10:41 發表
if she is not watching those DVDs together with your kids, personally i think it is acceptable, no need to worry too much.
but if she watched together with your kids, you better have further actions! ...
i understood your feeling coz my daughter is 4. do you have i-cam at home? i don't know how to talk to her, you can't let her know you checked her stuff when she wasn't home. may be you can ask your kids what the maide did in daytime.
原文章由 TB 於 08-5-19 12:50 發表
wanwyy, I'm not sure if she watch at my home or not. She doesn't know I check her stuff. How can I talk to her? When I saw that yesterday, I was shock and very unhappy even this is her own stuff.
BTW ...
wanwyy, my baby is just 20 mths and I didn't install i-cam at home. But anyway, we will not renew her contract and will terminate her once we can find another maid. Her old contrace will be end on 14/9/08. But we confirmed to renew her contract at the beginning of this mth but we still not process any document. Is it ok if we don't renew her contract now?
Her relationship between her husband is not very good because her husband had a girl last year. The main point I worry about is the 同性戀咸碟.