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乜自尊可以當飯食咩

返工俾人gut, 係工作範圍之一, 人工包埋

有邊份工唔駛俾人gut ...
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我C6每次咁同我講,我都叫佢resign架 (其實我知佢唔会resign),只係呻下！

根住佢都試過轉工，但honey moon 過後，佢咪又再呻過！
其實女人都有lee个mid life crisis. 只係我哋有其他priorities (family, kids.....) career 先致放後D,無時間要求咁多！

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回覆 #25 ha8mo 的文章



所以咪做住 + hubby話唔好咁易放棄+負資產 + children school fee + 大老細睇住 + 我熱愛份工....so 所以咪撑咗差唔多10 years --> now very stressful
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原文章由 love_dreaming 於 08-5-26 15:09 發表
我都有諗係中年危機呀，但我唔要要做d咩至幫到佢！
請問你hubby做d咩令你覺得舒服d，有support呢？

又請問有冇咩書對處理呢d人生階段有幫助呢？


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Hi love-dreaming, 我成日唔想返工是因為人事問題。Today I call sick！

I tell all my feelings to C6 but this time havn't cry but just always want to sleep & stay in the room，so probably he knows that this time is very worse situation。Then my C6 唔覺唔覺咁買D我鐘意嘅嘢(not expensive one)、好輕描淡寫咁問我如果唔做工怕唔怕boring (he knows that i like this job v much or else i won't stay for such long time, most of my colleagues with same year of experience had left)、佢攞咗好多去旅行的資料比我揀(係我唔些得駛錢，因為我好大可能辭工)、日日等埋我一齊放工、hold me tight when sleeping。我話比佢知若果我唔做工，除了親自教番两個小朋友外，重想咗D planning。佢立即幫我寫resignation letter，話比我知現在還可以養起頭家、佢重話：老婆，你知唔知其實你叻過個direct supervisor，因為你有個好老公，但佢重要養個就快退休的老公；嘩！我終於喊咗出來，亦知佢好support 我。
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至於mid-life crisis，it is about confusion on life plan as what your hubby said 唔知做セ好。
U can also plan with him, e.g. develop some kind of hobbies, do something that he want to try in his younger age。
I read some books before but forget the name。Try to search some kind of psychology book。
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咁萬一你又中年危機，你c9咪唔洗好似樓主咁愁囉！

原文章由 ha8mo 於 08-5-26 22:05 發表
咁你外家對於你不打工有咩意見呀？

唉，我老婆就係因為外家阻撓
所以一直繼續要返工
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有一次我C6呻工作的人事糾紛時, exactly我套果套電視黃子華嘅說話, 但辦公室政治一浪接一浪, 得一個黃子華都頂唔住, C6成日話想唔撈去賣魚蛋(真係食得果d),但我成日撥佢冷水話佢唔係做生意嘅人(小販都係生意)…..
可能真係中年危機, 我成日要數佢係公司中嘅貢獻(真係有d 貢獻嫁), 同support佢d工作做法, 講下佢老頂都係信得過佢先比d難嘢佢做, 同d惡頂同事夾, 做老婆嘅我點都要講嘢正面.
但C6話我講甘多, 最令佢感動係” 你真係頂唔住, 咪唔好做law, 最多洗少d我養你同小b”, 好彩佢都知如果佢唔撈, 佢心理壓力仲勁過家下
好彩小b都聽話, 每次叫pa pa, C6都lum哂, 見住小b人都開心哂, 乂足電, 返工再同人死過!!


原文章由 ha8mo 於 08-5-26 16:39 發表
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原文章由 ha8mo 於 08-5-26 22:05 發表
咁你外家對於你不打工有咩意見呀？

唉，我老婆就係因為外家阻撓
所以一直繼續要返工



你外家點樣阻撓呀？

我D兄弟不嬲都係一條船一條心！
我阿媽就話：讀咁多書只是揍仔，大曬D呀！我話比佢知是唔會曬，等我抖抖我會去超市做part-time收銀、去老人院做夜更嬸嬸、甚至做義工；佢一聽到就叫我去埋佢間center到做義工！

講真，其實係C6供我讀書的，我反而對佢有小小慚傀。
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唔想返工有無你地講得咁嚴重 ?

如果係咁,我10歲果陣已經日日都有midlife crisis, 日日都唔想返學添

計我話: 懶就懶啦
THE CORDS ARE NEVER REALLY CUT.
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如果懶到夜晚瞓唔著, 懶到成日好想搵d friend嘅舊同事呻就好奇怪! 懶就唔會驚比同事針對, 如果趕寧願唔食飯都早d返工.
朋友, 可能你未到中年, 未到高不成低不就嘅情況, 其實任何年紀都有危機, 中年咪對自己身份/成就要有肯定, 因為無時間再take 2而且易迷失, 家庭有負擔唔可以只顧自己.. 你到中年就明
原文章由 dj.hkhk 於 08-5-27 01:27 發表
唔想返工有無你地講得咁嚴重 ?

如果係咁,我10歲果陣已經日日都有midlife crisis, 日日都唔想返學添

計我話: 懶就懶啦
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如果懶到夜晚瞓唔著, 懶到成日好想搵d friend嘅舊同事呻就好奇怪! 懶就唔會驚比同事針對, 如果趕寧願唔食飯都早d返工.
朋友, 可能你未到中年, 未到高不成低不就嘅情況, 其實任何年紀都有危機, 中年咪對自己身份/成就要有肯定, 因為無時間再take 2而且易迷失, 家庭有負擔唔可以只顧自己.. 你到中年就明

原文章由 dj.hkhk 於 08-5-27 01:27 發表
唔想返工有無你地講得咁嚴重 ?

如果係咁,我10歲果陣已經日日都有midlife crisis, 日日都唔想返學添

計我話: 懶就懶啦
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我老公26歲咋,都成日話辛苦話唔想做啦...仲成日叫我叻D,佢留係屋企揍囡,咁當然係講笑啦,不過佢無乜上進心就真既!唔會諗點樣增值自己/搵多D錢,只會諗點樣洗少D錢,成日停留係以前既階段咁!唔諗下而家乜都加,係佢人工無加!淨係識叫你慳D慳D~又唔會諗下點搵多D! 我而家自己努力好過,我希望比到好生活我個囡!唔想佢好似我細個咁捱窮!日日捱公仔麵,連讀書買書既錢都無! 如果唔係仲係全職媽媽,真係好想出去搏命搵錢!
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咁究竟係唔想返工定係唔食飯早d返工, 我地係唔係講緊同一件事呢?
原文章由 smiletigger 於 08-5-27 01:48 發表
如果懶到夜晚瞓唔著, 懶到成日好想搵d friend嘅舊同事呻就好奇怪! 懶就唔會驚比同事針對, 如果趕寧願唔食飯都早d返工.
朋友, 可能你未到中年, 未到高不成低不就嘅情況, 其實任何年紀都有危機, 中年咪對自己身份/成 ...
THE CORDS ARE NEVER REALLY CUT.
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把口呻唔想返(可能個心都唔想), 但成年人會知唔返工邊有$養家, 再唔鍾意份工同d同事都要返, 同驚遲到比人話(再招人話柄)咪要唔食飯都要早d返….所以咪話中年人好多時做唔到好瀟洒好似做仔/女時咁做決定

原文章由 dj.hkhk 於 08-5-27 01:52 發表
咁究竟係唔想返工定係唔食飯早d返工, 我地係唔係講緊同一件事呢?
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huh? 我reply果陣係答緊樓主咋, 人地個case好似同你唔同, 人地會轉工, 過一排又來呻過; 而你就講緊要死頂啵

希望你relax d.

我未到中年 不過我都唔係咁好彩唔洗頂
我只可以話唔係個個有番咁上下年紀就會有責任感識驚死, 有d老左唔生性係要後生頂住

不過, 要頂住, 又唔代表要咁uptight o既, 你放鬆心情又係頂住, 眉頭皺又係要頂住, 不如放鬆d心情啦

踢波一係入一係唔入, 做人一係死一係唔死, 邊有第二條路架唧, 一日未死就未死, 生勾勾梗係笑下著數啦 成日皺眉, d皮好皺架

原文章由 smiletigger 於 08-5-27 02:11 發表
把口呻唔想返(可能個心都唔想), 但成年人會知唔返工邊有$養家, 再唔鍾意份工同d同事都要返, 同驚遲到比人話(再招人話柄)咪要唔食飯都要早d返….所以咪話中年人好多時做唔到好瀟洒好似做仔/女時咁做決定

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回覆 #16 love_dreaming 的文章

Midlife crisis
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Midlife crisis is a term used to describe a period of dramatic self-doubt that is typically felt in the "middle years" of life, as people sense the passing of youth and the imminence of old age. Sometimes, transitions experienced in these years, such as aging in general, menopause, the death of parents, or children leaving home, can trigger such a crisis. The result may be a desire to make significant changes in core aspects of day to day life or situation, such as in career, marriage, or romantic relationships.

Academic research since the 1980s rejects the notion of midlife crisis as a phase that most adults go through. In one study, less than 10% of people had psychological crises due to their age or aging.[1] Personality type and a history of psychological crisis are believed to predispose some people to this "traditional" midlife crisis.[2] People going through this suffer a variety of symptoms and exhibit disparate behaviors.

Many middle aged adults experience major life events that can cause a period of psychological stress or depression, such as the death of a loved one, or a career setback. However, those events could have happened earlier or later in life, making them a "crisis," but not necessarily a midlife one. In the same study, 15% of middle-aged adults experienced this type of midlife turmoil.

Some studies indicate that some cultures may be more sensitive to this phenomenon than others. One study found that there is little evidence that people undergo midlife crises in Japanese and Indian cultures, raising the question of whether a midlife crises is mainly a cultural construct. The authors hypothesized that the "culture of youth" in Western societies accounts for the popularity of the midlife crisis concept there.[3]

Researchers have found that midlife is often a time for reflection and reassessment, but this is not always accompanied by the psychological upheaval popularly associated with "midlife crisis".[

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