I also started to let my boy try feed himself at meal time, but really really messy and he could manage to put only a little bit in his mouth. So I give him his own set of bowl and spoon, with a little bit of food in it so he could try while I feed him at the same time! He would also try to feed me. works quite well and he loves it!
My BB tries to feed herself, but not very good, soft rise always falling down but put in her mouth..... .....,sometmes, she is just playing the spood and bit the spoon and then smile..... or use the spoon to stir, play the food....
Should we stop BB to play the food?