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大宅

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41#
發表於 09-1-7 13:24 |只看該作者
名校既壓力唔係個個小朋友都接受到, 家長要多留意囝囡呀!


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珍珠宮

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43#
發表於 09-1-7 13:46 |只看該作者
原帖由 EVA222 於 09-1-7 12:11 發表
點解講到名校咁可怕?通常是城外人看城內人,一知半解,好多名校學生,好享受自己的學習生活,接受挑戰是對自己的肯定,難道將來為了怕壓力,而放棄考入大機構,對有上進心的人來說,入不到反為更沮喪.
李怡曾寫過一段:對生活、對人生太認真的人,才會自尋短見.
因為生活是荒謬的,人有時必須對荒謬的生活不太認真,才能活下去,這是人類的悲劇
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說得對..

唔好認為名校難入就叫逼佢入.. 世事未必係咁架..

我成日都同d女講.. 路係人行出來, 絕對唔會冇路行架.. 亦都唔係只有升大學先係路..


侯爵府

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44#
發表於 09-1-7 14:08 |只看該作者


別墅

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45#
發表於 09-1-7 14:15 |只看該作者
原帖由 greenbaby 於 09-1-7 13:02 發表
壓力大要自殺...咁父母又點呀???

父母就死十次,一佰次,一仟次
所以由細到大,我會比d錯拆給d囝囡,等他們學習下,有錯拆,我相信人一生不會風平浪靜,順風順水


大宅

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46#
發表於 09-1-7 14:21 |只看該作者
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大宅

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47#
發表於 09-1-7 14:28 |只看該作者
佢係我同事個鄰居......
盲目的愛他們 8-)


男爵府

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48#
發表於 09-1-7 14:57 |只看該作者


珍珠宮

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49#
發表於 09-1-7 15:05 |只看該作者
真係難為佢父母養左佢十幾年.....


大宅

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50#
發表於 09-1-7 15:30 |只看該作者
其實今時今日係呢個社會生存都幾無所識從, 養不教, 父母之過, 搵間學校好唔好會影響佢以後...佢會有學校, 家庭, 感情問題, 可能你認為佢最有把握嘅科目-佢怕考得唔好, 可能同朋友有感情問題...男女之間 (但未見過佢講男仔播), 同輩之間(但佢個個都好好傾播), 而家我地大家係bk經過, 傾吓, 係人地發生問題, 但聽日就係自己嘅問題.
但願各位家長, 多d同人溝通, 了解自己/其他人嘅需要, 將d唔開心嘅嘢攞上嚟呻, 唔好係報章見.


侯爵府

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51#
發表於 09-1-7 15:48 |只看該作者
我細過時讀書都好辛苦 現在重辛苦 我唔會比太多壓力個女.自已辛苦佢有辛苦 只求盡左力合格都可以


男爵府

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52#
發表於 09-1-7 16:12 |只看該作者
替她選擇了這條路而婉惜. 但其實也不應把責任歸於"名校"或家長. 只是剛巧這學生是名校生. 所以名校便背負了罪名. 香港那麼多名校生. 有些確實可以輕鬆應付. 有些不是名校生也曾因學業問題而選擇輕生. 甚至大學生, 教師, 公司職員及老板也會因自身很多問題而自尋短見. 難道又怪罪於不同因素嗎? 每人在不同位置也有壓力. 所以只能從旁協助, 觀察, 關心及開導. 最重要是自己如何看件事. 有些學生就是家長沒給壓力, 他們也很會自己給自己壓力的. 有些家長給盡壓力, 他們也嘻嘻哈哈渡日. 輕鬆非常而沒半點壓力的.


侯爵府

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53#
發表於 09-1-7 16:12 |只看該作者
I am an old girl there. During my years, the school was already pretty "pushing" on academic results. I heard that it's just getting more & more focus on results in these eras. I definitely agree that HK students has to tolerate more pressure, could be more than it is necessary, esp. from parents, some from the schools as well. I studied overseas for high school, the atmosphere there was very different, most students were not appeared to have huge pressure, we needed to study hard though, but our results weren't only base on tests and quiz. Without tremendous pressure, students there could still do very well in University and got a great job! Students were trained mostly their reasoning and critical thinking.

We really need to pay some attention on our children's mental health besides their school works.

daisy17772


水晶宮

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54#
發表於 09-1-7 17:44 |只看該作者
原帖由 chanwendy 於 09-1-7 09:47 發表
雖然呢啲 case 一再發生, 仍有大量父母千方百計都係推個小朋友入名校.

花樣年華,要在通宵溫習考試中虛渡........

[ 本帖最後由 701003 於 09-1-7 17:49 編輯 ]


伯爵府

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55#
發表於 09-1-7 17:48 |只看該作者
oh my god!!!


水晶宮

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56#
發表於 09-1-7 17:57 |只看該作者
c6 今日同我講, 叫我唔好比咁大壓力個女, 我話佢下星期考試, 呢排仲懶懶閒, 叫極都唔溫, 我都唔知邊個比邊個壓力? 讀唔上去, 又係我既責任, 我都想死!!
謀事在人,成事在天,個天先係最終揸"fit"人!!

你恨的人,來生不會再見,所以別在他身上浪費時間;你愛的人,來生也不會再見,所以今生要好好對他。


男爵府

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57#
發表於 09-1-7 18:18 |只看該作者
My teenage girl told me that now the teens like to be "emos", which is short form of "emotional", this is a fashionable trend among them.

emo 可用來形容時裝, 音樂, 生活態度,

若用於人的話, 意思即那人處於不愉快和憂鬱的狀態 (feel emo)

他們常覺得自己被誤解, 不快樂, 有少數典型的emo也會有輕度的妄想傾向!

I see a lot of secondary students dress themselves in emo look, which has smoky eyes and long hair covering half of the face! They look like vampires! These people like to think about killing themselves. Is this a popular trend happening among the students now?


子爵府

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58#
發表於 09-1-7 18:27 |只看該作者


禁止訪問

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59#
發表於 09-1-7 20:47 |只看該作者
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王國長老

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60#
發表於 09-1-7 20:52 |只看該作者
原帖由 daisy17772 於 09-1-7 16:12 發表
I am an old girl there. During my years, the school was already pretty "pushing" on academic results. I heard that it's just getting more & more focus on results in these eras. I definitely agree that HK students has to tolerate more pressure, could be more than it is necessary, esp. from parents, some from the schools as well. I studied overseas for high school, the atmosphere there was very different, most students were not appeared to have huge pressure, we needed to study hard though, but our results weren't only base on tests and quiz. Without tremendous pressure, students there could still do very well in University and got a great job! Students were trained mostly their reasoning and critical thinking.

We really need to pay some attention on our children's mental health besides their school works.

daisy17772


我女中一有教呢樣,
希望唔會太遲。

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