KKCANDY04,
I do also the same. The security guard (a aunt) talked to me yesterday, she said : "I saw a lot of people left their BB/ kid to the maid in our bldg., normally the employer is kind to the maid , I saw the maid treat their kids better. The employer who treat the maid not good I saw they treat the kid not good, like: don't care, don't mind. of-course in front of the employer you can not notice, but I stay here can see a lot of those cases". Hope you maid is a good one!
LPF & kkcandy04,
My case is same like LPF, My mother is also very" Smart" and don't want to have this "job". LPF is lucky as she have some helpful neighbours. My neighbours is OK La, but cannot compare with those when I was stayed in the public estate last time. Also my husband can not afford the whole family (I still need to support my mother's side) if I quit my job.
I agree with LPF , the case like us (elderly don't or can't help) what we can do is to "trust" the maid and treat her better! . Although I saw some cases here the maids were really very naughty but still some were good. I think this is really depends on your luck and how you treat the maid.
KKcandy04, wish you can find a good maid who can help you and love your BB very much! :wink: