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發表於 09-11-30 16:52 |只看該作者
Dear all mums,

If your kid's birthday party will be held on 3:00 p.m., and someone informs you on 2:19 at the same date (by sending you a sms) that she and her two daughters (in fact, her maid came also, 2 adults and two kids) will go to the party, actually you don't know who she is, just guess she may be the parent of your kid's classmate, besides, you didn't prepare enough gifts or food for the extra guests, what will you think/feel?

Moreover, according to my observation, they come to the party just because they are nowhere to go and need to find a place to tea.

Actually, I appreciate those guests that they spend time to join the party and bless my kid and I also don't mind if there is no birthday gift to my kid, but don't send a small sketch book to my kid as the sketch book is white and looked like a 弔言冊, OMG .

If you were me, what will you think/ feel?


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發表於 09-11-30 17:35 |只看該作者
就算佢黎攝時間都ok lar...食物個d直接話預小左lor...話晒都叫有地方佢hea lar..仲想點姐...但都多2個小朋友一齊玩..其實d小朋友開心就得lar...bday party 都係想開心姐...sketch book 似弔言冊就你諗多左小小la....


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發表於 09-11-30 21:18 |只看該作者
Do you know what is empathy? Did you have the same experience before? If it happened to you, will you still have such thinking? Am I responsible for providing food and place for them to tea? Do you think it's OK that some people didn't reply you that they will come but show up finally?

I can surely tell you that I will never buy a birthday gift which is like that for my friends or relatives.

Some guys (4 people) just suddenly come to my party without giving me a phone call and told me that she lose the invitation card, but I saw she (the mother of two kids) was holding the invitation card when she arrived. In additions, she just paid attention to my kid's dressing. Shouldn't I be angry?

原帖由 iluvmybaby 於 09-11-30 17:35 發表
就算佢黎攝時間都ok lar...食物個d直接話預小左lor...話晒都叫有地方佢hea lar..仲想點姐...但都多2個小朋友一齊玩..其實d小朋友開心就得lar...bday party 都係想開心姐...sketch book 似弔言冊就你諗多左小小la.... ...

[ 本帖最後由 bebe0212 於 09-11-30 21:28 編輯 ]

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