我個case... c6都係一個唔上進嘅人... 當然未有小朋友之前呢樣嘢impact細啲... 宜家有小朋友我有時都會想佢上進啲等屋企生活好啲... 但係諗番起... 我以前鍾意佢係因為佢心地好同funny... 唔係因為佢會make lots of money... 我宜家只會有時remind佢工作要小心啲同上心啲... plus因為佢知道我冇錢會冇安全感佢都does his best去比錢我keep... it is already the best he can do for me whilst being himself...
原帖由 cherrie0215 於 15-10-09 發表
答單問,唔accept可以點?
Same case here
其實如果真係接受唔到:
1. 冇小朋友又唔想用長時間fix問題, 可以consider give up... 因為行落去, 問題都會一路喺到, 直至其中一方had enough 都係會分。
2. For whatever reasons 如果唔想/唔可以分, 就要change 自己個mindset... 可以試下list down in order of preference 你想要嘅 lifetime partner 有啲乜嘢條件+personality/characteristics... 你可能會發現, 其實徐咗你focus緊嘅嘢之外, 有好多list上面嘅嘢佢係有... or 對佢嚟講係可以meet到你要求 (對佢嚟講係做得到又唔mind做嘅)。 當然, 你list嘅嘢要係reasonable
要明白, unless you learn to appreciate... almost no one 會嫁到個100%中晒佢要嘅嘢嘅人... 如果你唔去學appreciate... 同只睇佢meet唔到嗰啲points 到, 你就算揾過個, 都可能會係咁...