Everyone want different. First of all, you should know what does your husband like/want.
For example, if your husband is a 'big' man and like to take care of others (like my husband), then I will enjoy the life of a 'little' women and let him arrange all the things.
However, if your husband enjoy his wife to take care of him. Then, his wife should know how to cook, how to take care of a family..........(the triditional style)