Your maid definitely is no good for your BB, if she is good... she will train the BB with good habit and be able to "command" your BB to follow her instruction.
Most of the maid like to let BB do whatever they want. Especially, if they can read or do their own stuffs at the same time.
On the other hand, as the parents, you should also be responsible for helping your BB to build up good habit and don't just let your maid to raise your BB in her way.
The maid should wake up before BB and prepare everything for BB before she/he wakes up... if they wake up at the same time... she will neither well handle herself nor the BB.
Set a timetable for both your maid and BB before it's too late.... When BB is 2-3 years old.. you will be harder to change the habit they already developed.
原帖由 eshiro 於 10-10-29 10:56 發表
Your maid definitely is no good for your BB, if she is good... she will train the BB with good habit and be able to "command" your BB to follow her instruction.
"習慣要睇住DVD 先訓到" <-- of course this is a very bad habit!! think about an adult who needs to depend on DVD 先訓到... do you think this is good nei??
BB is only 20 months old.. when BB turns to 2-3 years old... they will be know how to request more and you will have to spend double effort to 'fight' with them for not letting them to do unauthorized thing or bad behavior. If you don't let BB learn to listen to you now, you will have a hard time to have your bb listen to you later.... as BB will have his/her own thinking and willing to do things as he/she wants as older....
not too early la. my babies used to wake up around 6-7am.. so, my schedule for the maid is to wake up at 6:15am. That means enough time for her to get ready for work (she is here to work not being a housewife) and to clean up the living room, boil water, make milk, prepare a clean environment for BB to come out around 7am.
think about if you go to work, don't you have to prepare yourself first? not just wake up and then work gar...................