Tim is now more than 3.5 years old. On one hand, he wants Nathan to grow faster that he can play with him. On the other hand, he is jealous all the time, esp., when I bf Nathan. I think he feels bad that he needs to sleep with my maid now and Nathan is staying with us in our room.
The situation now is better than that a few months ago. YEt, he can still be emotional. HE always say '媽咪點解你而家唔照顧我嘅? BUt actually, I take care of him most of the time: I brush teeth with him morning and night/ having breakfast with him/ taking bath for him/ having dinner with him/ playing with him/ eating fruits with him/ accompanying him to sleep every night...
So, very tiring as I need to go to work
Yes ar, he's more emotional than before after Nathan was born
i absolutely agree w/yr pts of view. being a working mom, taking care of 2 young bbs are really tired (not just care their physical but also psychological development..) no matter how busy i am, i will try to reach hm b4 9pm, so i can read bks w/him b4 he sleeps. after he sleeps, i take bath for mui mui and feed (just want to be fair for 2 kids)
guo guo doesn't know how to play w/mui mui at this age, but for sure, they will be gd fds/ companions if c6 & i handle their relationships well. when guo guo was abt 7-8 mths old, i felt he knew the existence of mui mui (we always held his little hands to touch my tummy, telling him mui mui was inside). most of the time, he needed him to carry even the helper who had long hours with him couldn't settle him down....
when mui mui was born, he didn't accept her, trying to push her away if we put them together. he is very emotional when i am carrying mui mui. am i right if i passed mui mui to sbd and fulfil bryan's needs? is that unfair to mui mui? c6 said i am not fair to the bb girl?
原文章由 FlorashleyTim 於 08-4-9 09:37 發表
Tim is now more than 3.5 years old. On one hand, he wants Nathan to grow faster that he can play with him. On the other hand, he is jealous all the time, esp., when I bf Nathan. I think he feels ...