My mother in law wont let us have wedding ceremony at restaurant when we get married. I was so angry with her. She has another daughter who has just devoiced at that time. So very 'no face' as they have big wedding ceremony at restaurant and everyone was invited. They devoiced real soon after the wedding.
But we were under very different situations, we were together for more than 10 years while her daughter just knew the guy for one year.
I always dreamed of romantic wedding and I wasnt going to get one! I cried a lot at that time. Even today when I see wedding scene in movie, I will get real upset!
Tried talking to her and her family at that time and they asked me to hold the wedding ceremony when I give birth to a bb, then the wedding + bb fist month can be held together!!
I really could not believe it!
So I dont talk to them and dont see them now. No money to them too, not a dollar!