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發表於 10-3-19 13:07 |只看該作者

初初自己同BB都適應緊新生活，食奶個schedule梗係唔穩定，而且Cheryl得4磅幾，個胃咁細梗會少食多餐。0係娘家坐月咪會比媽咪知道我幾耐要餵一次，有時佢問我下餐幾點食，我都唔知點答！

而家搬返自己屋企就好0的啦，幾時餵、餵幾耐都唔會有人問。有時佢食得好可以食20-30分鐘，有時食唔夠10分鐘就訓着，整極都唔醒，咁我咪唯有餵密0的囉！

半夜餵奶真係好辛苦，尤其係latch得唔好會痛，但又心急想佢快0的食完快0的訓，有時都會諗點解半夜0個一兩餐唔餵formula呢？！但後來又覺得仲有能力做就繼續做啦，諗起食人奶除0左對BB好之外，仲可以慳好多，就會有動力堅持落去！

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發表於 10-3-19 13:21 |只看該作者

相比餵咗Oscar哥哥只係得三個月，我都覺得自己叻咗！哈哈！

今日都feel到有返多啲奶，埋身過一次，不過都要補formula，Marcus大食咗！有得餵都希望盡量啦！我會加油㗎！

我都覺得食少少血應該冇問題，latch得唔好都會損，不過自己就覺得好核突！Ewwww....

醫生都話我嘅情況唔係太嚴重，佢話有啲掂吓都會痛，又會含膿腫哂。我睇過有啲posts，如果發炎到裡面，真係要做operation，所以真係要好好照顧自己！

我用緊Medela嘅Swing。麻煩幫我問吓你個consultant，thank you Owen媽！

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發表於 10-3-19 13:41 |只看該作者

我六月都會返工喇！放唔足一年，早咗三個月...我都好想放埋佢，但係兩個細路真係好大支出。Oscar七月開始返summer school，九月就返pre-school，返半晝三個鐘都要差不多＄400一個月，所以都係要好天收埋落雨柴。

我記得上次返咗工頭一個星期，第一日已經放咗阿仔張相喺寫字枱，每次見到都眼濕濕，好掛住仔仔！今次都應該一樣！！Double掛住添！！

我有幾個同事都同老公share parental leave，我覺得唔錯㗎，可以比爸爸感受吓體驗吓，最衰我老公公司冇supplemental pay比爸爸放parental leave，淨係EI會好蝕。

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發表於 10-3-19 13:46 |只看該作者

冇錯！真係慳好多好多！哩個都係我嘅動力！加油！

原帖由 Queen824 於 10-3-19 13:07 發表
初初自己同BB都適應緊新生活，食奶個schedule梗係唔穩定，而且Cheryl得4磅幾，個胃咁細梗會少食多餐。0係娘家坐月咪會比媽咪知道我幾耐要餵一次，有時佢問我下餐幾點食，我都唔知點答！

而家搬返自己屋企就好0的啦，幾時餵、餵幾 ...

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beselsel

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發表於 10-3-19 19:27 |只看該作者

Actually milk supply could depend on person. I heard there a lot of people can supply all the milk to their kid till 12 months old but some not even a drop out. I guess all of us here had tried our best.

Queen, I know you really trying so hard in feeding Cheryl, but rest also can help milk production. so make sure baby sleep and you sleep too ar!!!

Tchu, are you working close to home, if so, you can ask your hubby to bring aiden out and have lunch with you for an hour and back home, so then they both will not be too bore at home, and also you can see see Aiden mar.

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發表於 10-3-20 03:38 |只看該作者

番到自己屋企就好啦. 終於自己地頭. 最好係你mama 耐不耐又探下你, 整野比你食. 但又唔洗成日check 住你同bb. 正!!!

有無考慮過同bb co bed 同瞓係度餵bb? 我知有好多人....書, 都話唔好, 會有危險. 但我好多mama 朋友都有教我0甘樣餵. 因為係對mama 來講比較舒適. 有得瞓, 餵完即刻瞓番, 差好遠.

原帖由 Queen824 於 10-3-18 21:07 發表
初初自己同BB都適應緊新生活，食奶個schedule梗係唔穩定，而且Cheryl得4磅幾，個胃咁細梗會少食多餐。0係娘家坐月咪會比媽咪知道我幾耐要餵一次，有時佢問我下餐幾點食，我都唔知點答！

而家搬返自己屋企就好0的啦，幾時餵、餵幾 ...

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發表於 10-3-20 03:42 |只看該作者

0甘多mama都出back to work! 真係唔簡單~

我而家每星期有一日都會要travel to work. 雖然前後3個hr, 但都好掛住呀仔. 有時唔覺意開車開到好快, 本來25min 車程變0左15min. 要成日提住自己唔好speeding. 歸心似箭就係0甘.

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發表於 10-3-20 03:46 |只看該作者

我老公話之前有咩policy, 有public preschool 會免費,唔知我地幾時先等到呢....

你地好lucky, 有popo 幫你睇, 如果要晨早放哂兩個入full day daycare, 超容

原帖由 ahbocat 於 10-3-18 21:41 發表
我六月都會返工喇！放唔足一年，早咗三個月...我都好想放埋佢，但係兩個細路真係好大支出。Oscar七月開始返summer school，九月就返pre-school，返半晝三個鐘都要差不多＄400一個月，所以都係要好天收埋落雨柴。

我記得上次返咗工 ...

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發表於 10-3-20 10:24 |只看該作者

I totally agree with you ahbocat, saving money and providing nutrious food to our baby at the same time.

原帖由 ahbocat 於 10-3-19 13:46 發表
冇錯！真係慳好多好多！哩個都係我嘅動力！加油！

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發表於 10-3-20 10:40 |只看該作者

Hello Beselsel,

Thanks so much for your tips again!

It takes about 20-30 mins of driving betweek work and home. I can let my hubby drive me to work, then they go for whatever the program they join and have with me lunch later. It's a wonderful idea.

原帖由 beselsel 於 10-3-19 19:27 發表
Actually milk supply could depend on person. I heard there a lot of people can supply all the milk to their kid till 12 months old but some not even a drop out. I guess all of us here had tried our be ...

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發表於 10-3-20 10:43 |只看該作者

Hello everymama,

Just wanna let you know, the Spring 2010 BabyTime Show will be held at International Centre Hall 1 from Apr 30-May2. Wanna meet together at the show?

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發表於 10-3-24 06:30 |只看該作者

唉⋯⋯激死我啦！

已經明示暗示過好多次，BB唔可以成日抱，但係⋯⋯

最初見親係唔係都會抱，一抱就成個鐘，仲要搖吓搖吓咁！後來可能知我唔鍾意，就成日等我個女喊，喊一聲就即刻抱起佢，仲要話“佢鍾意抱呀！”。我話“個個BB都鍾意抱0架啦，明知佢係扭計我唔會抱0架”！

唔係話唔比佢抱個孫，而係佢次次咁樣又抱又搖之後，0個晚Cheryl就會扭我0地抱，搞到我0地無覺好訓！遲0的我老公返埋工得番我一個揍女，我邊得閒咁樣抱法？你估我放假真係唔駛做咩，唔做邊個煮飯比佢個仔食？

我已經反映過好多次，我老公又唔出聲，又話佢想抱吓個孫就由得佢，唔通要我開聲咩？！

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發表於 10-3-24 13:41 |只看該作者

哈哈哈！阿Queen，我都好明白你嘅苦況，因為我嗰個都係咁！

由一踏入屋開始就抱住，以前就係大B，而家就係細B，抱仲不特只，仲會一路行一路搖，唔得佢死！我老公就會直接話，我就間接啲啦...我預咗做衰人！

屢勸不聽就會要我老公自己食番個苦果！啲男人好多時都唔明湊仔有幾辛苦有幾忙，等佢試吓囉！

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發表於 10-3-24 19:17 |只看該作者

Totally can feel Queen's problem, I had the same issue too gar, what I prefer to do is talk to my husband, if he still not understand, I will even start a long big talk to my husband with more expression, make sure he 100% or 90% understand and let him talk to his mom, sometime men are like that, they always think longer and want to try the right moment to say something.

Maybe, your husband already know and understand your situation, just waiting for the right timing to say to his mom ne.

Ijust realise having a bb, is not just an issue between me n my husband, also me and his family.....is harder than just staying with them after we married.

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發表於 10-3-25 00:20 |只看該作者

AYIA...typical!!! 我非常support queen824 mama! 你好啱呀, 佢搖一日, 你地搖7日.

叫老公出聲就最好. 我果個比我煩到佢屎, 佢都好support 我. 不過要講好多次lor. 你知d 老人家, 恨抱孫恨到流口水. 唔係唔比佢地抱lor, 但千其唔好比bb 學識扭人抱, 同抱住來zzz. 兩個big nono 呀!!

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發表於 10-3-25 00:23 |只看該作者

係囉，點解婆婆就會知道唔可以抱咁耐，但係嫲嫲就永遠都唔明白呢個道理呢？

有時明明冇事冇幹，亞女又好安靜自己玩緊，佢都會話「係咪想抱呀？」然後瞄吓我（即係明知我唔鍾意啦！），但係都會抱起佢！

平時得我哋3個喺屋企，BB扭計喊到拆天我老公都叫我唔好理佢，偏偏佢就係唔會同佢亞媽咁講！

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發表於 10-3-25 00:55 |只看該作者

I guess is not 婆婆 or 嫲嫲 knowing about it or not, is all the relationship matter, if is 嫲嫲, you hardly can say anything, but 婆婆 is your mum mar, so you can say no to her easier. as I said, this is not a simple issue between you, your husband and BB, is everyone in both family. Take it easy lar, my 9 9 do the same thing too ga, even bb now is 6 months old lar, she also keep saying to us: " don't hold bb too long ar" but at the same time, she go and grab him up. hahaha, one good thing is I back to work and day time is her to take care of bb, so she knows if she keep holding bb and is hers to suffer. :;pppp: me bad ei .. hehee

anyway, bb still small, don't worry if she will be like this all the way through, my little boy was so bad when he was 2 months, keep crying for hugs and hold him, but after that, now he rather want to play by himself.
think this way: .. now your baby wants you to hold her all the time, treasure this time, cause until 10 years later, you want to hold her, she rather kick you out from her room.

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發表於 10-3-25 04:54 |只看該作者

hahahaha! I agree with all mama. 99(或長輩) 對佢d孫仔/女又抱又搖係一個極common的issue. 而d老公面對佢太太就扮係雄鹰,但對住佢mama (aka 99)就只係鵪鶉一隻。

Queen, 希望你千祈唔好為這些事唔開心啦! 起碼你99會留意你眉頭眼額先借藉口抱cheryl。比起d 唔care新抱感受而只顧自己玩孫，一玩就2-3個鐘。無論你明/暗示不理不突止,重要比返o野你聽,而背後就call你hubby's office哭著數你是非o既99,你是幸福的!

我自己經驗話我知，就算唔好彩，d長輩對bb又抱又搖，但只要佢o地not available/around時，bb點扭你都硬起心腸唔抱/搖。bb會自己adjust番你比佢o既rountine。依家bb細，10磅8磅佢就搖呀搖，大d17/18磅重咁搖呀搖就少有家啦!希望Cheryl快高長大啦! 加油努力呀Queen!

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