泓毅媽媽
Better not to go. First of all, you should not even go to wedding or birthday party when you are pregnant according to the traditional Chinese customs. Funderal is considered a sad event, you don't want to be affected. My husband's old friend died (they don't each other since junior school) when I was pregnant, he was told by the family that he could not go. If you were good friends, I think that he could understand why you are not there.
花旗太太生活在花旗國,留意時差,你問我未必即時答到。